The time to file an order to show cause regarding contempt of a court order as to your "ex" upon stoppage of your court ordered alimony payments is when the due date for such payment comes and goes

You are wise to take action because you are in fact in violation of the order and could be held in contempt.  What you will need to do is to make a motion to modify the agreement and the

My experience is that unless there is a contested divorce with a lot of acrimony, most people who wish to end their marriage where there is nothing in dispute simply can resolve matters through an

Most courts frown on taking a child to another state to live without the other parent's permission.  The public policy of most states is to encourage a relationship between the child and each

In some state no; in other states yes.  My understanding is that in VA, for divorces based upon either desertion or cruelty, a 1 year separation (ie physical separation